What is it that you wish to achieve in the onset of the rest of the coming year????

This June is the last of my twenties, so a lot of reflection for me this month. What have my first thirty years been, and what can my next thirty be? Seems that up until now, I have not had my own dreams, desires, or even simple preferences. My identity has been lost in parents,friends, boyfriends, husband, children, and career. My mission for the next six months is to take time for myself and figure out how I can enjoy these next thirty years.