Girls have dating WAY EASIER than guys?

Sometimes i just wish i was born a girl, and no it doesnt have anything to do with feeling like being trapped in a wrong body or **** like that, i just think girls have it SOOOOOO much easier when it comes to dating, even the ugliest girl will have guys hit on her when she goes in the middle of the club and just stands still, whereas the gender roles we have make it so that you basically have to be a jerky guy to get anywhere with ladies or at least have a ton of confidence cause you have to initiate in 99% of cases. So basically shy guys are doomed unlike shy girls who still get at least SOME attention & hit on occasionally, ok yeah i guess girls can pull the "but most guys just want us for " -card at this point but its your own fault for choosing the most confident jerks (or well some girls do) who just want you for that.