In your opinion, is overrated?

can be great, it can be the best, most fulfilling, most exciting thing in the world. It can also be duller than dishwater. It all depends on you, your partner, your levels of experience, your pleasure in each other's appeaance, your environment (where you're having ) & many other things. One of the most important aspects is your feelings for each other; while complete strangers can have incredible, shake-the-walls-down , if you truly love each-other, it can add something transcendent to the experience. Or, it can still be dull as dishwater. It all depends on so many variables that it is impossible to answer your question honestly & be right about it 100 % if the time. It is different for everybody, and each time can be different for everybody too. & let me add this: anyone who thinks is so important that they are willing to put their life at risk to have it has a serious psychiatric problem, or they're a 16-year-old boy.